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Posted by Eric Stillman on March 25th, 2008 under ChurchPrint This Post  Print This Post


This past Sunday, I began a new preaching series I’m calling Why Believe? in order to address some of the biggest objections people have to faith in God and belief in the God of the Bible.  I began with the central question of Christianity – did God raise Jesus Christ from the dead? – which also required a brief treatment of the question of the reliability of the New Testament gospels and the question of whether miracles can happen.  If you weren’t there on Sunday, I would encourage you to listen to the sermon on the website, which includes a powerful personal testimony by Maggie Proulx.  Over the next four weeks, I’ll be dealing with the following objections:

March 30th – Is Jesus Christ the only way to God, and Christianity the only one true religion?
April 6th – How can a loving God judge people and send people to Hell?
April 13th – How can an all-powerful, loving God allow evil and suffering to exist?
April 20th – Doesn’t science contradict Christianity and disprove God? 

I thought it would be appropriate to use this space to deal with a related question over the next few weeks:  Why Go to Church?  After all, believing in God, even the God of the Bible is one thing; deciding to attend or become part of a church is another.  There are many people who are happy to believe in God, pray on their own, and even listen to sermons or read books at home, but are deeply cynical about the institution known as “the church.”  For some it is a matter of relevance to life; they find the sermons and programs wholly irrelevant and without practical value.  For others it is the interpersonal problems and issues found in many churches that have turned them off.  As Ray Stedman put it, “In any body, a certain amount of body odor exists; it’s true in the human body, and it’s true in the local church.”  I think it would be a good use of this space over the next few weeks to discuss the question, Why Go to Church? (and yes, I know that technically you can’t “go to church,” since the church is the people and not the building or the service)

I would love to hear some of your responses as to why you are or are not a part of a church, especially if you are a believer.  What is it that keeps you coming back and pressing through the difficult times?  Or what is it that has turned you away and convinced you that you can worship God just fine on your own?

I want to share with you a parable that I heard somewhere but have long forgotten who the source was.  Imagine that you are a (male) pastor of a church, and someone comes up to you after the service and begins to rave about you.  They tell you how amazing you are, how deeply your words and life have inspired them, and how they have just devoted themselves to everything you teach.  They can hardly contain their love and devotion for you.  Naturally, you feel pretty honored by them.  However, as they are gushing, your wife walks by, and their mood completely changes.  They begin to talk about your wife, and how much they despise her, how they can not stand to even be in her presence.  They obviously can not hide their revulsion, even going so far as to insinuate that you would be better off without her.

He who has ears to hear, let him hear…

What is my point?  One of the metaphors used by God to describe the church is the bride of Christ.  In Ephesians 5:25-27, Paul instructs husbands to love their wives “just as Christ loved the church and gave himself for her to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless.”  And John writes that at the end of time, the people of God will come down from heaven “prepared as a bride beautifully dressed for her husband” (Revelation 21:2).  In God’s eyes, his church is like a bride being prepared for her wedding day, so that on that last day she might be perfect and blameless for Him.  Therefore, to claim to love God but reject His church is like loving your pastor and hating the wife he loves

If you have distanced yourself from the church because of pain or because you fail to see the relevance to your life, but you still call yourself a follower of Jesus, I would challenge you to ask God to give you His eyes for His church.  He sees all of our flaws, but, as Paul wrote, out of love gave Himself for His church to make her holy, and is still cleansing her so that she might be pure and spotless on that last day.  In the same way, I believe that rejecting God’s church is incompatible with truly knowing, loving, and worshiping Him. 

As the great Christian theologian Augustine put it so crudely, “The Church is a whore, but she is still my mother.”  May God help us to see His bride through His eyes, so that we might love His people as much as He does.


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[ # 6211 ] Comment from a.j. [March 26, 2008, 2:01 pm]

i think the scripture ( Ephesians 5:25-27)refers to the “saved” people as a whole and not to specific congegrations.

what do you think?

[ # 6212 ] Comment from Eric Stillman [March 26, 2008, 2:33 pm]

I think you are correct in that when Paul talks about the church he is talking about all followers of Jesus, which expresses itself in local communities of faith. The universal church is the bride of Christ, and we should remember that to speak ill of the church is to speak ill of God’s beloved. His response to the brokenness of the church is not to reject them but to die for them, to love them, and to work to bring them to holiness, and I think there is a lot to learn from His response.

[ # 6242 ] Comment from Christopher Dart [March 28, 2008, 10:35 am]

To the question, “Why go to church?” I shall write. First, I must state something of what is expected of the Church. Secondly, I must state what the Church is perceived as. Last, I wish to state what we are to be and how that will be realized.

On September 16, 2001, the churches across the U.S. were crowded. American citizens, in great numbers, attended churches after the towers fell in NYC, looking for comfort, hope and an answer concerning that tragedy. The Church has, somehow, made the claim, she is an organization whose builder and maker is God. The leading ministers are to be those who interact with God and should be able to communicate those things of utmost importance concerning man and eternity to common men who must expend their time and effort supporting their families, businesses and, perhaps, church. It is expected men of God must be in the presence of God and are able to provide that which touches the soul, even to be, as it were, an intermediary between men and Christ.

Six months after September 11, fewer people attended church than ever before. The citizens of the U.S. went to what claims to be the House of God for an answer and found none. To them, the Church was found to be fraudulent. Her pastors and ministers, mere men, who knew little more of God than could be perceived from a book.

My children have introduced me to a number of their peers. In conversation with them, I have found that they consider the Church as a powerless, irrelevant organization, which is not an option for them. I explained the virtues of hearing the Word of God to a young man this week, as a discipline to produce faith. “That’s all Greek, to me, he said.” To another young man, I spoke of Jesus Christ, which, he knew absolutely nothing.

And thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children, and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thine house, and when thou walkest by the way, and when thou liest down, and when thou risest up (De. 6. 7).

The previous generation has not taught the present generation. In some cases, unbelief goes back several generations. In the Works of Francis Schaeffer, Dr. Schaeffer explained disbelief progressively leading to despair, anarchy and chaos. There is, no doubt, a sense of despair among men today. People want answers and no longer believe those are in the Church.

We had our chance, on September 16th, 2001, to prove to men we had an answer from Heaven; an answer that cannot be manufactured, neither attained from universities, nor derived from books. The answer which comes only from the throne of Almighty God. Instead, we were more concerned, at that time, in feathering our own nests.

I recall considering certain secular men, whose concern was for achievement and gratification of the flesh, as being less wicked than I. Some years later, as I ministered as a musician in worship, I recognized myself as lukewarm, and the church, which professed to have “cornered the market” on praise and worship, was in the same precarious position.

I set my face to diligently seek God. He taught me to embrace repentance and brokenness; even being rejected by siblings in Christ, as He, Himself, often stands outside knocking (Re. 3. 20). We must seek God for he that cometh to God must believe that he is, and that he is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him (He. 11. 6).

The Church is the Bride of Christ. She is a building, made not with hands but by God, of living stones. Each person, being the temple of the Living God. Each person, being as Christ, Himself.

The message concerning the condition of the Church is not directed to those who have found the Church a non – issue, or to those Christians who find the present church services as something they can no longer endure, but it is to the pastors of the churches.

There is no shortcut around the prayer closet. Ministry must always come after and only in response to prayer.

Your servant in Christ,

Christopher Dart

[ # 6244 ] Comment from a.j. [March 28, 2008, 2:36 pm]

so eric,
im guessing that you think going to a specific church (congregation) isnt explicitly stated in the bible all around love is what people are looking for.

[ # 6273 ] Comment from Eric Stillman [March 30, 2008, 5:13 am]

I don’t think it was conceivable for the early Christians to consider being a follower of Jesus without being a part of a local church. After all, they weren’t all carrying around their own Bibles back then, didn’t have access to online sermons or books, and understood the importance of community much more than we do today. I don’t think there was a need to address this issue since I doubt anyone was attempting to follow Jesus without being a part of a community.

So, I certainly don’t think the BIble tells us that we need to be Presbyterian, Catholic, Congregationalist, Baptist, etc., but I think we are meant to live out our faith in some sort of Christian community.

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