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Marriage and the S word (submission, that is)
The Bible & Gender 7.0
by Eric Stillman 
June 3rd, 2007

 

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Today I’ll be wrapping up the series on the Bible and gender roles.  Last week I shared two important foundational truths about Christian marriage – it is not eternal, but is rather an imperfect sign pointing to the eternal, perfect reality of God’s love for his people; and it is not necessarily preferable to being single.  Today we’re going to look at a passage of Scripture that is at the same time one of the most beautiful, most dangerous, and hardest to live out correctly passages in the whole Bible.  Many people in church know it because of the prominent use of the “s” word – submission.  That word and the passage in general has been the cause of serious anger on the part of many women through the years, as well as perhaps serious discouragement for many men trying to live up to what this passage requires.  Today we’re going to tackle marriage and the roles of husbands and wives head on, and I can promise you that I will step on some of your toes, offend some of you, and challenge most if not all of you.  And then I will exit by the back door.  And some of you who are married will ride home in awkward silence.

But hopefully, God willing, some of you will come away inspired by God and His word, rededicated to your marriage and to following God’s will.  Or, if you are not married, you will be encouraged by his love for you and the hope of what could be.

Without further ado, please turn to Ephesians 5:21. 

Ephesians 5:21 – 5:33 - Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.  22 Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord.  23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior.  24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.  25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her  26 to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word,  27 and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless.  28 In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself.  29 After all, no one ever hated his own body, but he feeds and cares for it, just as Christ does the church--  30 for we are members of his body.  31 "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh."  32 This is a profound mystery-- but I am talking about Christ and the church.  33 However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.