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Let’s begin by reading Genesis 50:14-26:

Genesis 50:14-26  After burying his father, Joseph returned to Egypt, together with his brothers and all the others who had gone with him to bury his father.  ¹⁵ When Joseph's brothers saw that their father was dead, they said, "What if Joseph holds a grudge against us and pays us back for all the wrongs we did to him?"  ¹⁶ So they sent word to Joseph, saying, "Your father left these instructions before he died:  ¹⁷ 'This is what you are to say to Joseph: I ask you to forgive your brothers the sins and the wrongs they committed in treating you so badly.' Now please forgive the sins of the servants of the God of your father." When their message came to him, Joseph wept.  ¹⁸ His brothers then came and threw themselves down before him. "We are your slaves," they said.  ¹⁹ But Joseph said to them, "Don't be afraid. Am I in the place of God?  ²⁰ You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives.  ²¹ So then, don't be afraid. I will provide for you and your children." And he reassured them and spoke kindly to them.  ²² Joseph stayed in Egypt, along with all his father's family. He lived a hundred and ten years  ²³ and saw the third generation of Ephraim's children. Also the children of Makir son of Manasseh were placed at birth on Joseph's knees.  ²⁴ Then Joseph said to his brothers, "I am about to die. But God will surely come to your aid and take you up out of this land to the land he promised on oath to Abraham, Isaac and Jacob."  ²⁵ And Joseph made the sons of Israel swear an oath and said, "God will surely come to your aid, and then you must carry my bones up from this place."  ²⁶ So Joseph died at the age of a hundred and ten. And after they embalmed him, he was placed in a coffin in Egypt.

Let’s focus especially on v. 19-21.  Jacob, the father, has died, and Joseph’s brothers still do not trust him.  They think that maybe out of respect for his father, he’s been waiting for his father to die before taking his revenge.  And so the brothers say that their father asked Joseph to forgive the sins of their brothers.  And Joseph responds by weeping, because he’s grieved that they don’t yet understand his love and forgiveness towards them.  And he says three very important statements to them, that each have a great deal to say to us about how you repair relationships and move on in a healthy way when you’ve been wronged.

1) Don't be afraid. Am I in the place of God?
2) You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives.
3) So then, don't be afraid. I will provide for you and your children.